I received an email this week from one of my very good friends. She has three small children and she asked me: “Jenny, are you taking time out for yourself?” She has recently hired a babysitter for one morning a week and is dedicating this time to herself – not groceries, not children’s doctor’s appointments. She is going to recharge herself by taking long walks, writing letters, quilting, napping, coffee with friends, the occasional manicure. She also included a tasty cheesecake recipe in her email.
My initial reaction was “Good idea, but where the heck would I find time to bake a homemade cheesecake?” Then I paused for a moment: what’s stopping me from making time to bake a cheesecake? I it possible that baking would force me to focus on finishing my most important tasks first – is this a motivational cheesecake? [Read more…]